生日寄语
母親受難日,來張她的文青圖。
透過41年的觀察,覺得不少子女都犯了一個錯誤——父母被我們神化了。
兒時,他們是我們心中的天,他們無所不能,他們就是一切。等我們長大了,才漸漸明白,他們也是跌跌撞撞中摸索如何做一個好父親、好母親的。
又過了許多日子,我們也要開始學習為人父母或長輩時,又發現,真的就像是小時候上學那樣,有人考出了好成績,有人確實會不及格。
有的父母,他們缺乏知識,不懂方法,做得很糟糕,但只要愛是真實的,時間總會讓你感受、理解、體諒。
有的父母,他們面對不同的子女,即便都深愛,但人性使然,總會讓他們潛意識裡更偏向一個,而“冷落”了另一個,就像父母兩個人在我們心中也會有些微妙的差別一樣。
有的父母,他們真的就是不及格,甚至連分內的愛都沒有,那就勇敢地認清并接受這個現實。但不要因他們的錯而綁架自己,也要學會與他們的錯慢慢分離。
不要用他人的錯誤懲罰自己,即便這個“他人”,是父母。
生命不是誰的延續,它就是獨立的美麗。
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